The Conundrum: Social Nudity & Sexuality

“I suppose it’s not a social norm, and not a manly thing to do — to feel, discuss feelings. So that’s what I’m giving the finger to. Social norms and stuff…what good are social norms, really? I think all they do is project a limited and harmful image of people. It thus impedes a broader…

Tantric Lovers

Sometimes it’s not the butterflies that tell you you’re in love. But the pain. Leaving my husband on September 28 of last year was the most painful act of my life (to date). If you have read my blog, Tantrachick, you likely know of our epic love story, or at least the parts of it…


Dance is the private language of the soul.

Accessing Inner Peace

The quieter you become, the more you can hear. In a hectic world filled with daily stressors, cell phones and outer chaos… it’s more important than ever to turn the world off and take a moment to access inner peace. I hope you are having a beautiful evening. From my heart to yours, Joy

Loving Your Breasts

Self love is the greatest middle finger of all time. When people read my blog or view images of me, they inadvertently develop their own ideas of who I am and what I stand for. A lot of people applaud me for my bravery and compliment me for being so comfortable in my body. As…

Oh Joy

So tonight I was like, oh damn I haven’t blogged yet today! I also hadn’t taken a self portrait so I decided I’d just let life flow and capture the moment. The bottom line here is, the cat wanted out. I opened the door lol. Nothing deep or introspective about this post or this moment….

The Tantric Man

Hey lovelies, After a couple days dealing with tech issues, I am taking a night off. I am feeling beautifully grounded and incredibly positive for the future. I lost sight of my intuition for a minute but I am back on track. I got quite a lot of feedback about the title of my program,…